It would be fascinating to spend an evening with you.

I am transgender. My religious pilgrimage began as an evangelical Christian and ended up ... ? I don't know what you'd call me today, other than a heretic. You might call me an apostate, though I think that's inaccurate. I still believe in Jesus.

As I say, it would be a fascinating evening. I don't agree with everything you said, but I understand the issues.