I’ve said this already, but I think the recent ascendency of extremism on the Right is the fruit of their reaction to extremism on the Left. All I know of “queer theory” is that it rejects heteronormativity, which I have addressed separately. So long as any movement rejects objective heteronormativity, there will be war, because the vast majority of humanity will never agree.
The bathroom issue will never be resolved in our favor until a critical mass of the cis female population no longer see us as a threat – and that’s something you can’t legislate.
There are solutions to these issues, but I don’t know how to get people to accept them. How do you reverse polarization? It’s like a runaway freight train, that will have to crash into reality before it stops. Reason has left the building.